Webshow:

Come play while the wife is away shopping this black Friday at SarahBlake.com
Show starts at 3pm (PST)

New Website News:

SarahBlakeBondage.com is up and accepting new members!

SarahBlakeNylons.com is in the process of being accepted for billing with CCBILL(my payment processor) and should be ready for members in a week or 2

SarahBlakeFeet.com is in the final stages of production and will be submitted to CCBILL soon and ready for members in a couple weeks!

SarahBlake.com will be going through some changes as well with easier navigation

HaveSlaveWillTravel.com is in production of tons of new content and will begin production of the website in the next couple weeks.

A list of new bondage/fetish related sites will be announced in the upcoming weeks so you can know what to expect from Sarah Blake and her perverted mind in the upcoming year.

Screening

Screening one’s clients is the first line of defense against scams, LE, violence and many other undesirables. Although it can be unnerving to clients it is, unfortunately, a necessity. Without it, many more of us would simply disappear, be robbed, raped, or be victims of other violent crimes. Women are 10 times more likely to be victims of a violent crime. The reasoning behind screening is very serious and as much as clients will poo-poo the idea, without screening info, I don’t see anyone and recommend that no other escort sees clients without it either.

If you are a client and you don’t think you should be screened then you should ask that mother of 3 in Colorado how that works out for her…oh wait, she disappeared and has never been found.

One of my best resources for screening tools, help, advice, camaraderie, and the most comprehensive blacklist out there is www.dangerzone411.com
Dangerzone 411 is a community of escorts(over 3000 of them) that have come together to help keep each other safe.

If you are an escort: Sign up Here!

Along with screening, there are other safety tips that not only escorts should be aware of but all women.

Basic Safety

http://www.thenonprofits.com/safety.htm

http://www.womentraveltips.com/tips5.shtml

http://womentodaymagazine.com/family/safety.html

http://www.haltabuse.org/resources/offline.shtml

One of my favorite places to visit if not THE favorite place to visit is New York City. I go for work and play. Oh, the plays! I have to see at least 2 shows every time I go. Without the theater, its a wasted trip to me. I fly out on Monday and there for the week,woohoo!

I’m bring some rope with me to practice some ties. I have a ton of requests for bondage so I want to brush up on my techniques and quick ties and unties. Who will I practice on? Well, myself and willing volunteers of course!

Other than the bondage and BDSM, there will be plenty of time for dinners, shopping and encounters on the softer side:) I have a few new dresses that I’m excited to bring with me and some great shoes! I’m going to be shooting more content for my upcoming fetish sites so I’m bring the stockings and heels for this trip. I may have to pay extra for the bag but its worth it!

I missed blogging and thought this was interesting and amusing. I had to share! Did you miss it?

So my mom received an email today. Yes, my mom did, not me. It explained that her daughter(me) was an escort and even had a link not only to my escort website but to my paysite as well! Oh the drama!

Her response: “No shit Sherlock!”

I thought this response was priceless. When she told me about it, I started laughing but then I stopped and thought about how lucky I am. I don’t have to lie to my family or hide what I do. They know I’m a freak, escort, pornstar, whore, or whatever. They still love me anyway. I’m extremely fortunate to have people in my life that love me without conditions. t doesn’t mean I don’t value the decreet nature of this business. I see their lives outside out little bubbles of fun as none of my business anyway. I don’t have time for all of that mess. I just want to have a great time too, then go home, hug my dogs, watch CSI or Dexter, then drift off to sleep.

I then thought about the escorts I know that were outed and it was a very bad thing for them. I feel awful for them and would never wish “being outed” on anyone, no matter how catty I felt toward them. When it happens, I’m a bit pissy about the lack of respect they are being shown after countless encounters and keeping their own mouths shut.

What is “Being Outed”

It means that some lamer decided to reveal to friends, family, work, or whoever a person was trying to keep being in the industry “quiet” that they are in fact, in the adult industry. The secrets out, cats out of the bag, and sometimes it ruins lives.

So, I have to say in closing to this blog entry to the lamer that tried to out me. I’ve been out for quite some time, like the very beginning, lol!