Being your own boss isn’t all it’s cracked up to be but this week, it was. I took the week off for my birthday and had the best time of my life. Since I am the boss, I only answer to me. In preparation for my time off I had to buy a few things, helmet, chaps, bandannas, and riding boots. Leather shopping is so much fun!

I took a bike trip across the US…a little over 2000 miles. I left my computer at home for this first time in years, only check my email every other day and put everything on hold. I didn’t work for 5 days. That is a lot for me. It was a little difficult after the 3rd day. I itched to get on the computer but alas, it wasn’t there so I had no choice but to enjoy myself,lol…

The trip started out in St. Louis and ended at my house in Las Vegas. I didn’t drive but seeing the scenic route from the back of a motorcycle was so amazing. I got a bunch of pictures but not until the 3rd day. I was having so much fun that I forgot I even had a camera with me.

I ended up getting some great shots but the camera doesn’t do the scenery any justice. It made me want to buy a panoramic camera…and a motorcycle. I had almost bought one when I lived in LA. I went to the Harley shop, sat on a few, picked one out and then took some time to think about it. Later the same week, I saw a horrible accident on the 405 freeway and decided not to buy the bike. Now, I want one again and it’s like a fever. It’s fun to ride on the back but I want to drive, control the throttle, feel the motor…maybe that would be a good Christmas present to myself.

I keep seeing this and I have to laugh. Its so cute and reminds me of a series called the Million Dollar Man and there is another one with a woman but I can’t remember the name of it. I’m not a robot but I am a lover of Sci-Fi so it tickled my fancy.

After many posts speculating why, complaining, whining, bitching, and boobie hate mail(LOL) because of the choices I made, I just have one thing to say: FUCK OFF! You sound like a bunch of old biddies!

I turn 28 this coming week, yes 28. That’s right, I’m on the better part of almost 30 now. I’m not 18 and I don’t really give a rat’s ass what people think. I’m me, feisty, daring, shoots from the hip, and doesn’t take any shit…so look out.

I got an email a few weeks ago from someone just plain being an ass. I get these daily, even before I changed my look, but I just let the guy have it. He replied back that I wasn’t the nice person I claimed to be. Well, I never claimed to be nice or a doormat either. I’m not required be pleasant after a sorry attempt to insult me. I don’t understand why people think you have to be nice to them after they act like complete jerks.

So, I didn’t change my look for money, for someone else, to prove anything, or to try to look like everyone else. The hair is an experiment and its fun to change, morph into and change back at a whim, which I will do whenever I feel like it. I wrote a blog all about why I changes but I guess the board whores don’t understand how to read anything but the tattoos on the small of backs. If they really wanted to know, they could read my diary. That would just take considerably too much effort and its much more fun to make things up and speak of the downfall I am possibly taking. Some people have way too much time on their hands.

Life can be complicated and so can relationships. Fortunately, there is an uncomplicated way to have the intimacy of a relationship without the complications that come with it. Seeing an escort is a very simple way to fill a need without having a half dozen of the problems that come with getting involved in a relationship.

Now, don’t get me wrong, there is a relationship between the client and escort, its just defined under terms agreed upon by both parties when they decide to meet. Its defined that there will be no great love affair, or dating to see if you are both compatible for marriage(although some don’t get that) since you only really are going to see the lady for an hour up to a few days. You aren’t going to marry her, be her boyfriend, or her best friend. Its a fling, a casual encounter, moments in bliss, but keep things in perspective.

There seems to be a common misconception that escorts are single and available to date outside of the parameters of the escort arrangement. Many are not. Many have an SO(significant other), a boyfriend, girlfriend, fiance, or spouse already. Its no one’s business just like your personal life if your business. Others still are just not interested in becoming involved, or want a boyfriend. She might really like you,l but she doesn’t want any more than the escort/client agreement, no matter how much you “Click” or “meld” or have in common. Most times the suggestion of dating or seeing a client outside of an arrangement will just make her uncomfortable and out her in a bad spot. She doesn’t want to hurt your feelings or lead you on but its not what she wants. There are many clients I have not seen again due to this.

Sooner or later all escorts encounter clients that don’t seem to understand that we do this for a living, while we adore our clients, we don’t love them. We may consider you friends once a trust is earned but many also have families and other obligations.

Being with an escort is like living in a small bubble of time. In this bubble, the escort molds a fantasy for you and that’s what it is, a fantasy. Reality and fantasy are 2 different things. She may be poised, pliant and submissive when you see her, she’s the perfect girlfriend. Well, of course she is! (For the amount of time specified)

In the end we all must part. A brief not here or there can be great but daily emails can seem a little strange, 4-5 emails a day? OK, now its time to put it in perspective. The biggest compliment you can give an escort is not to write her love notes, just see her again and tell her how much you enjoy her company.