I get asked many times during the week if I am PSE or GFE or both. Now, from what I have read about this alphabet soup, I really can’t answer. I won’t commit to a set of acts based on the 15 different definitions for both of these acronyms. How confusing are some of these weird things anyway! I am not a robot and there is no guarantees in life. I know it may be hard to grasp but every time I meet someone, that session, appointment, or date is catered around that person, their behavior, where we are, if they smell bad, factors man, there are many factors! Who is to say exactly what may happen between 2 adults that happen to really like each other? or the stinky bad breathed guy who is grabby and irritating? Do you get my meaning?

I look at each experience as something to remember and make memorable. Its not routine and if there is a script for each session, I would get dreadfully bored and then I may grow some tin skin, being robo-barbie. Bleh, who wants that?!? Maybe some do, but not the clients that I want to see.

Ok, let’s look at some fact here before we all go mad(or at least me):

I am a porn star
I have been in actual porn films
I am a Midwesterner
I am a bit shy at first and warm up quickly
I have an old soul and appreciate gentleman
I don’t dress “the part” (not saying that other PSE’s do, just been asked for the super short skirt)
I love fine wines
I love to try new restaurants
I am quite affectionate
Dinner dates are my favorite types of dates

Hmmm…Seems like I would be a PSE since I am in films but it has been described to me like you hit the door, that the gal shoves her tongue down your throat. EWW!, I more of a let’s chat and get to know each other for a few minutes. I like the romance, the candles, the soft lights, the giggles, the passion. Hmmm maybe I am a GFE.

I won’t give you the nitty gritty details of what I have read these definitions mean. Its a bit gross and both have unsafe activities listed that I am not in any way interested in. I don’t care what you see on TV or what listed on your favorite message board(rolls eyes), I won’t compromise my health(or yours) for your excitement, and its not ok to ask me to.

Well, what can you expect? You can expect to meet a charming Midwestern gal with a sweet, warm, playful personality that wants to have a fantastic tie with you. If you need the ABC’s, then you need to look somewhere else. Where? I have no idea, maybe one of those that have the acts listed. Maybe there will be no screening, boon for you, but then you may be arrested too. Cops write reviews, isn’t that cool?

To close, I say you can’t label me, I am just me. I am the Sarah Blake Experience- SBE!

So, I write this in jest, to make you smile, not take life so seriously with a bit of dry humor that may appear as a gripe but tongue in cheek the whole time. I giggles a bit, wrinkled my nose a few times and in the end, as I took another sip of my favorite wine, smiled

Everyone thinks I’m so sweet, well, that’s true, I’m a very sweet person, but I have a devious naughty side too. The side that is into BDSM, tying people up, and all the non-vanilla stuff that most people are afraid to talk about even though they are curious.

Lol, its funny how I am asked by clients to help them explore the darker side of companionship yet the interject immediately with,” I just don’t think you can be mean or strict enough” They soon find out otherwise. Its like a switch is flipped on the wall, Sarah is switched from sweet and demure, to the cruel Mistress that they have been dreaming of.

Some of the Activities to Included:

Slut Training
Slave Training
Sissyfying
Corporal Punishment-slapping, caning, flogging, spanking, ect
Bondage
Foot, High heel, and Stocking fetish/worship
Humiliation
Sensory Deprevation

The Little Mistress
I’ve devoted an entire website to my darker side. This would not be for your normal companionship or the light of heart but for those who want to explore BDSM and having a Mistress. I’m sure I’ll get the confused client every once in awhile. You see, Mistresses don’t do escort services, hence the different websites to make that clear. Rates for domination are $500/hour

There is also a blog there where I will be doing some writing, talking about BDSM and my darker fantasies.

I’ve got www.sarahblakebondage.com still in the works as well for this fall. I’m a switch by nature so you’ll see me in the role of both a Dom and a Sub.

What is Private travel?
Private Travel is when you have an escort travel to you and only you for a set amount of time outside her home area. Basically, you are flying her to you. She is only there to see you and not anyone else.

What about travel expenses?
Typically the client would pay travel expenses for the escort to travel to him/her as well as a deposit. Travel expenses would include airfare and hotel expenses.

What kind of deposit would be required?
Obviously, the escort will want some assurance that you are serious and that you will be there to see her. Yes, there are jokers out there that flake. Every escort is different, please see her website.

How long can I book an appointment for with private travel?
Longer engagements are preferred for travel. An escort is rarely going to travel to you for just an hour unless you pay her rate for her travel time. In my case, I require a 4 hour minimum for the US and 2 days for travel outside of the US.

How much advance notice would I have to book?
This would greatly depend on an escorts schedule. Usually a couple weeks notice is sufficient but always check with the lady of your choice. My own schedule is rather hectic but with enough lead time, I’m sure we can find time that will work for both of us.

I missed blogging and thought this was interesting and amusing. I had to share! Did you miss it?

So my mom received an email today. Yes, my mom did, not me. It explained that her daughter(me) was an escort and even had a link not only to my escort website but to my paysite as well! Oh the drama!

Her response: “No shit Sherlock!”

I thought this response was priceless. When she told me about it, I started laughing but then I stopped and thought about how lucky I am. I don’t have to lie to my family or hide what I do. They know I’m a freak, escort, pornstar, whore, or whatever. They still love me anyway. I’m extremely fortunate to have people in my life that love me without conditions. t doesn’t mean I don’t value the decreet nature of this business. I see their lives outside out little bubbles of fun as none of my business anyway. I don’t have time for all of that mess. I just want to have a great time too, then go home, hug my dogs, watch CSI or Dexter, then drift off to sleep.

I then thought about the escorts I know that were outed and it was a very bad thing for them. I feel awful for them and would never wish “being outed” on anyone, no matter how catty I felt toward them. When it happens, I’m a bit pissy about the lack of respect they are being shown after countless encounters and keeping their own mouths shut.

What is “Being Outed”

It means that some lamer decided to reveal to friends, family, work, or whoever a person was trying to keep being in the industry “quiet” that they are in fact, in the adult industry. The secrets out, cats out of the bag, and sometimes it ruins lives.

So, I have to say in closing to this blog entry to the lamer that tried to out me. I’ve been out for quite some time, like the very beginning, lol!

I have seen many escort photos that don’t show their face and thought many were elegant. Well, this is a butt shot but I like it. If I took shots without showing my face, they would be like this one.

I think about 90% of my clients have never seen any of my work outside of my pictures in ads and on my website. It usually comes up within the first 5 minutes. They tell me they are sorry but they have never really seen anything I’ve been in or done. It amazes me that many think its going to insult me or that I am expecting them to rattle off countless websites that I have been on or why they liked whatever movie it was. It doesn’t bother me at all, in fact its great to spend time with someone who is just attracted to me and wanted to see me.

Alternatively, some become fans after they spend time with me. They are a little startled by some of the projects I have been involved with, lol. I have gotten a few email saying “Is this you???” with a link to some bondage or BDSM website. It always makes me smile as I answer that yes, I have a bit of a kinky side:)

Another very interesting thing that I have found is that most escort clients don’t watch porn, most porn fans don’t see escorts, most strip club patrons don’t watch porn or see escorts, and all visa versa. I know because I have asked them:) They have thier own niche that they enjoy and the other generally doesn’t do it for them. The different clients or patrons like different things and have different needs from their adult entertainment.

So, when someone says that they are not a fan, I’m never offended.

We have all seen them. Some hottie that reminds you of a pornstar, the photography is the cheesy lighting and wow she looks great. It looks like Nancy! Wow, and she must if lowered her rates because the ad says…

Ok, many agencies buy pictures form content producers for their ads. These girls aren’t really available and if they are, its not through that agency and not for that low price. Its a bait and switch. Meaning they have baited you with one photo so you will call or email but the girl who shows up is not the girl in the picture. They hope that you will just see her anyway because she went through the trouble to come to you.

I have seen my pics stolen or purchased for this use and since I became an escort its slowed down quite a bit but it still happens. Unless I post it on my website that I’m going to a certain city, I’m not there. Sorry!

How do I know this happens? I get emails about an ad here or there where someone is notifying me of someone using my pics. I have worked for a few content providers and they sell pics. Had I known this before, I wouldn’t have worked for those companies just to avoid the confusion.

As you can see I have changed the look of this website and it now closely resembles my paysite. I was tired of all the black and I couldn’t do some of the things I wanted to with the blog. I couldn’t submit it to directories or network with other blogs since I didn’t have a darn sidebar. The old theme didn’t allow for it so I figured it was time for yet another overhaul. I think it has a lighter feel to it. Its happier-like me!

I will change the header over to some newer pics and will be adding pics to the gallery either this weekend or early this week. I shot some great pics in Dallas. Here’s one that I really love:

I’m also shooting a ton of naughty content for my paysite next week. I’ll post a few pics here and maybe some teaser videos too:)