Jaded
What happens to adult entertainers to make them seem so bitter and jaded?
Burnout: If you don’t take breaks and learn when you need time off, you will go bat-shit crazy. I’ve done it before and it happens to us all.
Negativity: saying “NO” all the time is not exactly the most positive thing to be doing. Having to say no to questions about our personal lives, what we will and won’t do, the money questions and all that just makes for a stressful day of being on guard. It can wear you down. The bad stories, negative press and just the general view that society has on adult entertainers is kind of a bummer too.
Dumb People: Yeah, I said it, dumb people, or smart people doing dumb things. Lack of reading and following directions. Sometimes you want to pull your hair out, sometimes you want to smack the fools. Other times the “delete key” is your best friend.
Cancellations: Things come up, people die, mothers get sick, and dogs get ran over. But there are some people who must just enjoy wasting the time of others. Its frustrating.
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October 5th, 2008 at 12:22 pm
Dear Sarah: It’s a pleasure to read your blog. Thank you. Steve
October 5th, 2008 at 6:48 pm
Well said,
but life is going on .You need to find something which works for you personally to overcome
all troubles. .Unfortunately it’s a personal fight.Nobody will help you there.It’s like endless interview.
One more thing.You are writing
people reading.You opened this gate looking for an audience.Now it backfires It’s inevitable Sarah.
Do not publish this comment.
October 9th, 2008 at 3:58 pm
I ad to publish this comment since you were weak enough not to just email me but leave an anonymous comment.There isn’t a backfire, I’m blogging about things that are relative to my industry. I accomplished the goal of started a discussion with this entry. If you don’t want to read about it then don’t, I’m still going to blog away about things I notice, experience, feel and see. Maybe you should read a few blog entries down about reading too much into things…
October 9th, 2008 at 5:00 pm
I find your blog interesting, myself. I’ve worked on adult websites and dealt with too many girls who play the games and tell everyone what they want to hear all to get what they want. I like how you’re real and say what’s on your mind and commend you for having the guts to be honest about things…
October 11th, 2008 at 12:54 pm
Lack of reading and following directions.
Gah! That is perhaps my biggest pet peeve - clients who don’t read through your web site to find out what they need to know.