Can’t Be Everything to Everyone

You can’t be everything to everyone. This statement cannot be more true. Some people will love you, others will hate you. Yet, others will try to mold you into what they want instead of letting you just be you. If you aren’t yourself, then who are you?

I think many adults struggle with this in personal relationships and so do adult entertainers when they first start out in the business. Not all of them but I’m betting quite a few. You can lose yourself while trying to be someone else, you forget who you are.

Have you considered that the reason for their dislike of you or certain qualities you have has NOTHING to do with you?

“Stay true to yourself” is the best advice I have ever been given. I do what is right for me. It may not be right for everyone, people may not agree with it but if I cared what people think then I wouldn’t be an adult entertainer. Some people’s opinions really do matter to me but my own opinion of myself is what matters the most. I love myself, what I do for a living and I won’t apologize for it and neither should any other entertainer.

I got an email one day telling me that he didn’t buy the whole “happy with myself act” Well, sorry hon, it isn’t an act. Now there is an example of someone not happy with themselves and having to project it onto someone else.

“Life sucks but at least I’m not…(Fill in the blank)” Oh yeah, someone has some issues. Maybe they weren’t hugged enough as a child?

Just letting my mind wander onto the computer screen…