I babble, ramble on and just let the words flow onto the computer when I type so relax! I’m not in conflict, nothing is wrong and I’m so happy that its kind of disgusting sometimes. I mean, walking around with a grin all day makes other people nervous. They wonder what I’m up to,hehehe…mostly dirty thoughts…

Life is good and I keep on trucking along, getting it done. Well, as much as one person can get things done, ha! I’m constantly overwhelming myself with projects but such is my life for the past 6 wonderful years as an adult entertainer. Woohoo, I have an anniversary coming up too.

You can’t be everything to everyone. This statement cannot be more true. Some people will love you, others will hate you. Yet, others will try to mold you into what they want instead of letting you just be you. If you aren’t yourself, then who are you?

I think many adults struggle with this in personal relationships and so do adult entertainers when they first start out in the business. Not all of them but I’m betting quite a few. You can lose yourself while trying to be someone else, you forget who you are.

Have you considered that the reason for their dislike of you or certain qualities you have has NOTHING to do with you?

“Stay true to yourself” is the best advice I have ever been given. I do what is right for me. It may not be right for everyone, people may not agree with it but if I cared what people think then I wouldn’t be an adult entertainer. Some people’s opinions really do matter to me but my own opinion of myself is what matters the most. I love myself, what I do for a living and I won’t apologize for it and neither should any other entertainer.

I got an email one day telling me that he didn’t buy the whole “happy with myself act” Well, sorry hon, it isn’t an act. Now there is an example of someone not happy with themselves and having to project it onto someone else.

“Life sucks but at least I’m not…(Fill in the blank)” Oh yeah, someone has some issues. Maybe they weren’t hugged enough as a child?

Just letting my mind wander onto the computer screen…

I’m planning a trip to LA in October. I’ll be there from Oct 13th-19th. Incall is in the SFV and outcall is available to the LA area.

I’m so excited to shoot with my new video capture system. I love gadgets and this one allows me to not have the hassle of changing tapes or taking time to digitize them. Not only does it save me hours of time, it records up to 9 hours! That just happens to be the battery life on my Sony 2100, woohoo!

I ordered my new websites so I’m in content shooting overload to get tons of great content to have in addition to what I already have-which is a lot!

I am not going to be traveling much but I am still available to travel to you or to be your travel companion on a trip. You’ll notice the info on my rates page but you may still have questions about how that actually works.

Private travel works much like any other appointment except I am traveling only to see you instead of a tour where I will be seeing several people. That’s right, you get me all to yourself!

After the screening process, there is the matter of me booking the travel. I don’t let anyone book my travel for me for security reasons and also because I don’t like to be told when to fly or in case I want to stay an extra day to sight-see. This is not very often but its great to have that option.

I require a deposit for travel of 25% of my fee for the time we spend together plus travel expenses. I also require that we spend at least 4 hours together. I will not fly across the county for a 1 or 2 hour appointment, that is just ridiculous, so please don’t ask me to do that.

After I receive your deposit, then I book my travel. I don’t book it beforehand due to schedules changing and just not sending the deposit after 10 emails and phone calls to plan a trip. I’m not jaded but I know better now. Some people just are aren’t serious and like to play games. A deposit lets me know you are serious about seeing me and makes it worth the trouble of booking flights, taxis, being away from home, ect.

What happens if the trip needs to be canceled? Well, If I cancel then I refund your deposit completely including the travel costs. Besides, its not your fault that something came up right? If you need to cancel, depending on the circumstances, we can usually work something out. I’m not an unreasonable person and that doesn’t happen very often.

So if you have more questions about private travel, please shoot me an email:)

So, Since I dyed my hair back to red, I hadn’t taken that many pics. Yesterday, the morning light was beautiful. I didn’t have any make-up on or some hoighty-toighty outfit but I took some pics. So here’s me with the red hair again and not a stitch of make-up on.

This entire naughty photoset will be available here.

I have decided to make a big change in my business structure since I have to devote more time to my websites and that is taking up most of my time. I don’t have as much time to deal with the marketing, and other things that go along with my escort business. Please note that I still screen the same way and it is required from each client, no matter where you are from or who you are. So, I’ve dropped my rates while taking care of my websites and also some family issues that have come up. I’d like to think it will encourage more serious inquiries and it will be easier for me to pick and choose from those inquiries.

To see my new rates-Go to my Contact and Rates page

Its so great to be back to red. In case you forgot what I look like as a redhead, here are a few pics for you!

More pics coming soon!

Everyone thinks I’m so sweet, well, that’s true, I’m a very sweet person, but I have a devious naughty side too. The side that is into BDSM, tying people up, and all the non-vanilla stuff that most people are afraid to talk about even though they are curious.

Lol, its funny how I am asked by clients to help them explore the darker side of companionship yet the interject immediately with,” I just don’t think you can be mean or strict enough” They soon find out otherwise. Its like a switch is flipped on the wall, Sarah is switched from sweet and demure, to the cruel Mistress that they have been dreaming of.

Some of the Activities to Included:

Slut Training
Slave Training
Sissyfying
Corporal Punishment-slapping, caning, flogging, spanking, ect
Bondage
Foot, High heel, and Stocking fetish/worship
Humiliation
Sensory Deprevation

The Little Mistress
I’ve devoted an entire website to my darker side. This would not be for your normal companionship or the light of heart but for those who want to explore BDSM and having a Mistress. I’m sure I’ll get the confused client every once in awhile. You see, Mistresses don’t do escort services, hence the different websites to make that clear. Rates for domination are $500/hour

There is also a blog there where I will be doing some writing, talking about BDSM and my darker fantasies.

I’ve got www.sarahblakebondage.com still in the works as well for this fall. I’m a switch by nature so you’ll see me in the role of both a Dom and a Sub.

Ahhh, back to the red. The blonde was fun, an experiment, and great to look like the women I admired while growing up. After about 2 months of the constant maintenance, I decided that I missed my red locks and dyed it back yesterday. Woohoo, redhead again!It suits me better and I’m sure there will be overjoyed fans. Pics coming soon!

In other news, I won’t be touring anymore with the exception of Los Angeles once a month. I had some family issues come up that are keeping me close to home. I am still available for private travel to you in case you can’t make it out to Las Vegas or Los Angeles.

I’m back home in Vegas and just when I get settled in, its time to go to LA! I may be doing a live webcam performance for SarahBlake.com depending on scheduling or I may be back in Las Vegas already.

I’m going to be shooting content there as well as having a fantastic time finishing a few remodeling projects, a magazine shoot, and of course seeing some clients:) Its a short trip and then back home again where I’ll be for awhile.

I canceled my tours for September due to a family issue and I need the time to work on my upcoming websites. Besides the paysite, I need to get that Mistress website going. Its difficult to fit in all the little things while jet setting around around the country, trying to figure out what time zone you are in and if its the same as the tech people you are calling,lol.