I head out to Houston tomorrow. I got so much done in Austin I surprised myself! I’m pretty much on track for the 5 new websites. I’m shooting a bunch of content today and then in Houston, shooting even more content. I’m still adding the other missing photosets and editing video(reediting) for the sarahblake.com members area. I’m tempted to redo all the video but I know I may not have time to do that so I will have to do it a little at a time.

Houston is going to be so much darn fun! I’m going to get that hat.

Sometimes I am so happy and satisfied I disgust myself. I am happier than I ever thought I would be. With so much to look forward to, it’s hard not to be excited all the time, if not a little impatient at times for it all to happen and get here. It feels like the possibilities are endless, and quite literally, they are.
Having this much happiness makes me really appreciate my life and what it could have been like if not for certain events. Things sometimes have to happen the way they do in order for it all to work out.

I‘m not religious but I feel so blessed.

Woohoo, I made it to Austin after a very, very happy birthday week. I’ll be rescheduling the SF trip soon, maybe sooner than I think:)

So I’m downtown, Lord of the Rings is on TV and I have a great bottle Pinot Grigio to keep me company until I get to be naughty tomorrow. I am going to be shooting content for sarahblake.com as well as my other upcoming websites. I have them all mapped out and someone to build/design them for me too. Life is good and just getting better. I’m back on track and more enthusiastic than ever:)

So I tried the blonde, loved it but missed my red. So, I’m going back to the auburn hair soon, not sure when, might be next week. Make sure to check out the gallery since I’ll be posting new pics as soon as I change it!

The red feels more fierce, more flirty, more fiery and I can’t wait!

Being your own boss isn’t all it’s cracked up to be but this week, it was. I took the week off for my birthday and had the best time of my life. Since I am the boss, I only answer to me. In preparation for my time off I had to buy a few things, helmet, chaps, bandannas, and riding boots. Leather shopping is so much fun!

I took a bike trip across the US…a little over 2000 miles. I left my computer at home for this first time in years, only check my email every other day and put everything on hold. I didn’t work for 5 days. That is a lot for me. It was a little difficult after the 3rd day. I itched to get on the computer but alas, it wasn’t there so I had no choice but to enjoy myself,lol…

The trip started out in St. Louis and ended at my house in Las Vegas. I didn’t drive but seeing the scenic route from the back of a motorcycle was so amazing. I got a bunch of pictures but not until the 3rd day. I was having so much fun that I forgot I even had a camera with me.

I ended up getting some great shots but the camera doesn’t do the scenery any justice. It made me want to buy a panoramic camera…and a motorcycle. I had almost bought one when I lived in LA. I went to the Harley shop, sat on a few, picked one out and then took some time to think about it. Later the same week, I saw a horrible accident on the 405 freeway and decided not to buy the bike. Now, I want one again and it’s like a fever. It’s fun to ride on the back but I want to drive, control the throttle, feel the motor…maybe that would be a good Christmas present to myself.

I keep seeing this and I have to laugh. Its so cute and reminds me of a series called the Million Dollar Man and there is another one with a woman but I can’t remember the name of it. I’m not a robot but I am a lover of Sci-Fi so it tickled my fancy.

After many posts speculating why, complaining, whining, bitching, and boobie hate mail(LOL) because of the choices I made, I just have one thing to say: FUCK OFF! You sound like a bunch of old biddies!

I turn 28 this coming week, yes 28. That’s right, I’m on the better part of almost 30 now. I’m not 18 and I don’t really give a rat’s ass what people think. I’m me, feisty, daring, shoots from the hip, and doesn’t take any shit…so look out.

I got an email a few weeks ago from someone just plain being an ass. I get these daily, even before I changed my look, but I just let the guy have it. He replied back that I wasn’t the nice person I claimed to be. Well, I never claimed to be nice or a doormat either. I’m not required be pleasant after a sorry attempt to insult me. I don’t understand why people think you have to be nice to them after they act like complete jerks.

So, I didn’t change my look for money, for someone else, to prove anything, or to try to look like everyone else. The hair is an experiment and its fun to change, morph into and change back at a whim, which I will do whenever I feel like it. I wrote a blog all about why I changes but I guess the board whores don’t understand how to read anything but the tattoos on the small of backs. If they really wanted to know, they could read my diary. That would just take considerably too much effort and its much more fun to make things up and speak of the downfall I am possibly taking. Some people have way too much time on their hands.

Well, I decided that instead of working the week of my birthday, I would do something for myself. Take a damn vacation! I haven’t really taken a vacation is a very long long time. Sure, I’ve taken a few days here and there but nothing like the week I am taking next week. I’m sorry to cancel my travel to San Fransisco but this is a chance at something so wonderful I would cancel anything to do it. Again, doing something for myself. I’m getting pretty good at that lately.

What am I talking about? Where am I going? Well, that’s a secret and just for me. I’ll tell you about it when I get back. Its going to be amazing!!!

Life can be complicated and so can relationships. Fortunately, there is an uncomplicated way to have the intimacy of a relationship without the complications that come with it. Seeing an escort is a very simple way to fill a need without having a half dozen of the problems that come with getting involved in a relationship.

Now, don’t get me wrong, there is a relationship between the client and escort, its just defined under terms agreed upon by both parties when they decide to meet. Its defined that there will be no great love affair, or dating to see if you are both compatible for marriage(although some don’t get that) since you only really are going to see the lady for an hour up to a few days. You aren’t going to marry her, be her boyfriend, or her best friend. Its a fling, a casual encounter, moments in bliss, but keep things in perspective.

There seems to be a common misconception that escorts are single and available to date outside of the parameters of the escort arrangement. Many are not. Many have an SO(significant other), a boyfriend, girlfriend, fiance, or spouse already. Its no one’s business just like your personal life if your business. Others still are just not interested in becoming involved, or want a boyfriend. She might really like you,l but she doesn’t want any more than the escort/client agreement, no matter how much you “Click” or “meld” or have in common. Most times the suggestion of dating or seeing a client outside of an arrangement will just make her uncomfortable and out her in a bad spot. She doesn’t want to hurt your feelings or lead you on but its not what she wants. There are many clients I have not seen again due to this.

Sooner or later all escorts encounter clients that don’t seem to understand that we do this for a living, while we adore our clients, we don’t love them. We may consider you friends once a trust is earned but many also have families and other obligations.

Being with an escort is like living in a small bubble of time. In this bubble, the escort molds a fantasy for you and that’s what it is, a fantasy. Reality and fantasy are 2 different things. She may be poised, pliant and submissive when you see her, she’s the perfect girlfriend. Well, of course she is! (For the amount of time specified)

In the end we all must part. A brief not here or there can be great but daily emails can seem a little strange, 4-5 emails a day? OK, now its time to put it in perspective. The biggest compliment you can give an escort is not to write her love notes, just see her again and tell her how much you enjoy her company.

The new store is live! Woohoo! You can now purchase many items and there are many more to be listed that I should have up in the next week.

You can now purchase DVD’s, 8×10’s, Custom DVD’s, Webcam shows, and memorabilia-outfits from my shoots including panties! I have so many things from shooting over the years and great places to new item like bikinis and lingerie so that I can offer them to the ladies out there.

Upcoming items to be listed soon:

More panties, stockings, socks and nylons from my shoots
New clothing and lingerie including panties, bikinis, lingerie, dresses, and more!
Shoes!
DVD’s that I have been in and a few that I haven’t
Signed Magazines I have been in

http://www.sarahblakestore.com

The design is done and almost everything is ready…except for my part. I have to get all the products loaded up with pics and descriptions, write the store FAQ, and create an offline form so that customers print it and then can fax, email, or mail me an order.

I will have tons of memorabilia from the shoots I have done over the years, DVD’s(my own as well as others I’ve been in, custom DVD’s private webcam shows,PPV items, Phone fun and too much to name.

I am so happy that I will have new items available for girls and not just porn and items for the guys. Sorry guys, its not all about you this time. I will have clothing, lingerie, stockings,accessories, adult toys just to name a few things.

If you are a DZ411 member I am going to run some special discounts just for ya’ll

I head out to Chicago on Sunday and I’m really looking forward to it. I haven’t been there since February and it was snowing then! I’m not talking about little flakes wither they were the big honkin’ kind, yes I said honkin’ because there is no other way to describe them other than saying that they reminded me of little fluffy clouds falling from the sky.

Anyway, its not going to be snowing there in August. I’m planning on seeing the Aquarium there and exploring the city a little more than I did before. I’ll still be shooting content and having a great time with myself,lol, but I’ll be out more since I won’t be in ass-deep snow.

Screening

Screening one’s clients is the first line of defense against scams, LE, violence and many other undesirables. Although it can be unnerving to clients it is, unfortunately, a necessity. Without it, many more of us would simply disappear, be robbed, raped, or be victims of other violent crimes. Women are 10 times more likely to be victims of a violent crime. The reasoning behind screening is very serious and as much as clients will poo-poo the idea, without screening info, I don’t see anyone and recommend that no other escort sees clients without it either.

If you are a client and you don’t think you should be screened then you should ask that mother of 3 in Colorado how that works out for her…oh wait, she disappeared and has never been found.

One of my best resources for screening tools, help, advice, camaraderie, and the most comprehensive blacklist out there is www.dangerzone411.com
Dangerzone 411 is a community of escorts(over 3000 of them) that have come together to help keep each other safe.

If you are an escort: Sign up Here!

Along with screening, there are other safety tips that not only escorts should be aware of but all women.

Basic Safety

http://www.thenonprofits.com/safety.htm

http://www.womentraveltips.com/tips5.shtml

http://womentodaymagazine.com/family/safety.html

http://www.haltabuse.org/resources/offline.shtml

I get asked this a few times a week. Yes, I do have female clients. They are strong, powerful women, the curious, the bisexual, sometimes the lesbian. The female clients see me for many of the same reasons that my male clients do.

They want companionship without the hassle of a relationship. They want a little no strings attached fun. I love it because I am bisexual. They get companionship, and I get my girl fix. I don’t prefer female clients over my male clients just like I don’t prefer men or women in my personal life. It all really depends on the person and their personality.

Many of the women I see have the traditional role you would normally see a man in. They have high-powered jobs, they are the bosses, the bread winners. Many want someone they don’t have to compete with or prove anything to and can just be themselves with for a few hours or so. They want to relax and enjoy themselves just like my male clients.

I tend to let them take more of the lead then my male clients. Most are comfortable in that role and if they aren’t we usually discuss that in advance so there is no misunderstanding of what her needs are. Some want to explore their submissive side and others their dominant side. My female clients get to see my submissive side while my male clients see the dominant side.

The women are a wonderful treat!