Wow, its already 2008. I’ve been in my new home for almost a year and it seems like only a short while ago I had just moved in. I guess its time to unpack the last of those boxes in my garage!
Looking back at 2007 and remember the trying times, the new adventures, new friends, new business moves..all in all not a bad year at all. It was a very transitional year for me as I am sure it was for many people. I had to make a lot of very important business decisions. I have learned so much this year about myself, about marketing, and about life in general. The whole of my responsibilities was realized and I allowed myself to actually feel proud for accomplishing so much.
In 2007 I decided to become a writer and help other adult industry professionals and other wanting to get into the industry. Now my first draft of my first book is almost complete. I’m just finishing up the last bit of research on links for the resource section and then I’ll put it in e-book form. In an effort to make my first book as comprehensive as possible, I may just be making it a little too wordy. I think the too much information is better than not enough. I’m excited to help others and this is a great direction for me. I didn’t realize how much I would enjoy writing. I have always liked to write diary entries and blog but this felt really great. It has a purpose and I know it will educate on some of the pitfalls. Hopefully, they will have a great time and get the most out of the adult industry. The book should be out and available to order within the next week! I’m a little nervous as I always am when I start a new venture. I already have 10 other book outlines done so that I can start on those as soon as this one is launched.
The first one is called, “How to be a Porn Star” by Sarah Blake, and this edition is for the gals that what in the adult film industry or the ones that are with agencies and want to be independent. I’m also writing one for the guys because I think that is a very common question that men have and its harder to get in for guys.
In 2007 I decided that I was going to continue on with my websites and movie ideas. I had about given up on them due to my mother’s health problems. I thought I wouldn’t have any time for expanding my business but then she started to get better. I decided that I needed to restructure my site and am in the process of breaking in apart into different sites to hit different markets. Hey, if I am going to go on and on about diversification in my new books, then I better take my own advice right? The fetish movies are on their way and I have my first investor. It will snowball from there. Filming is scheduled to begin in spring of 2008.
In 2007 I Trusted my gut. I decided to take down all my reviews. I had 3 stalkers and one of them decided to just go too far because I wouldn’t see him. Rather than proving I hadn’t seen someone, I just got fed up and decided not to deal with that system of advertising and liability. I was just tired of all the crap from “hobbiest” and they were just taking the fun out of escorting altogether. Well, I took the power back, gave them the finger and went on with my business and business has never been better! I was so surprised at how many more great clients I had seen after the reviews were gone. These clients didn’t have alphabet soup on their minds, a score card, or a seemingly grocery list of activities… we just had a damn good time! I remembered why I loved this work so much again.
In 2007 I got over the fact that I am petite and made peace with it. I’m small and mighty and even though I still get carded at the grocery store for buying rated R dvd’s its really ok.
In 2007 I stopped being such a hermit and branched out to make new friends. I discovered a wonderful group of ladies and joined a message board that is only for women in the adult industry. What a diverse and fantastic bunch of gals! Through it I met my best friend and now business partner.
In 2007 I conquered smoking for good! I danced for a little while and fell off the wagon one night, having a cigarette. I haven’t had one since and that was back in February of 2007. I’m completely done now and it feels great to not even want to smoke, even when I am stressed out.
I know there were many more things that went on but these were just off the top of my head. I have so much planned for 2008. AVN is going to be huge for myself and my company. Its going to kick of another fantastic year!
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